How to come up with a classy dating profile
The current dating scene is much like a race: endless and ruthless. If some time ago, we had been struggling hard to make a good first impression when approaching potential dates on the streets, in today’s age of modern technologies and the Internet, it’s all about a good dating profile. But with so many people switching to online dating, those on the hunt for love must know how to make their profile stand out. But how exactly?
- Lifestyle photos instead of static poses
What is the first thing users pay attention to when scrolling through the list of users on a dating site? It’s the pictures they post, of course. If one wants an account to at least attract the attention of potential matches, adding a few pictures is a must. However, to bring actual results, it’s worth being a bit more creative.
Thus, instead of posting blurry selfies taken in a hurry, sharing a few pictures of oneself enjoying some scenery from the last vacation, for example, could work much better. Alternatively, taking a photo while doing a hobby is a great way to convey personality. When choosing pictures thoughtfully, the dating profile not only stands out but also shows that the owner is serious about the idea of meeting someone – not to mention that it is also a great way to share interests without actually saying a word.
- Being specific
After taking a look at the photos a user posted, we usually start seeking hints that can tell what kind of dating this person is pursuing, so why not make the task easier and mention it in the profile directly so that people know exactly what to expect? Making intentions clear could save a lot of precious time. Instead of explaining to everyone trying to reach out that all that’s on offer is one-night stands and nothing else, this way it’s possible to spend time chatting only with those people who have similar dating goals.
Thus, those looking for tender hookups and nothing serious should mention that somewhere in the description on their profile. It’s best to keep in mind that, in this case, choosing a website dedicated to casual dating in the first place would be the best idea because such platforms gather exclusively those people who have no interest in long-term dating. But no matter what kind of website is chosen, it’s always important to be clear about intentions.
- Facts as conversation starters
Even if it’s a casual date one is looking for, getting to know a potential partner is vital, at least for safety measures. So, for no less than for the first few hours, it is necessary to hold a conversation, asking and answering questions to see there’s a click. Still, when it comes to approaching someone, many people feel lost trying to come up with a topic to discuss.
At this point, to make it easier for both parties, it’s worth filling out a profile in a way that helps other people start a conversation. It can be anything of interest – music, cinema, art, sports, etc. All that’s needed is a short description of the user’s interests to reach a wider range of prospective partners, even if it’s something insignificant at first sight. In fact, literally anything mentioned can become a good conversation starter.
- No excessive personal information
One of the safety measures that must be taken when seeking dates online is keeping personal data private. Even considering that getting to know dates is vital, it doesn’t mean they must know anything about one’s personal address or bank account. When it comes to casual dates, some people prefer to keep their real name private too, but this kind of precaution is rather extreme and only relevant for those who seek affairs outside their relationships.
The most common scam scheme on dating sites is asking for financial help. A user with a fake profile reaches out and, after only a few messages, starts telling a story about how badly they need money as soon as possible. Without a doubt, this person has bad intentions, so it’s better to leave the conversation and block/report them.
- Avoid negativity
To stimulate people to reach out, it’s also a good idea to make sure the account doesn’t have anything that can be considered an insult. Even if there’s something unacceptable to the owner of the profile, it should be avoided in the dating experience at all costs, and there are many ways to mention it while still staying polite.
Thus, for example, if a black man who wants a hookup with a black woman only, there’s no need to write anything aggressive with reference to white users. Saying something like, “I prefer dating black women exclusively, no offence, ladies!” is better than speaking ill of anyone on the site. There’s no way any black woman will reach out after a demonstration of such aggression toward women.
Creating a cool dating profile that can guarantee results is a pretty tricky task as there are so many details to consider. Still, being aware of the main elements that make a profile stand out is enough to reach success.
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